“Hey Little One, we start with ‘I’m sorry,’ but the real work begins when we ask, ‘How can I help?'”

Today’s quote was inspired by an episode of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood. The spinoff series from Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood debuted in 2012 on PBS Kids—eleven years after Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood ended and nine years after Fred Rogers’ passing, continuing his legacy of early childhood learning. 🐯✨

I watch Daniel Tiger with a certain Little One (and, of course, we read the books together!), and I love its bias for action—especially the moment in this episode when Daniel learns: “First we say sorry, then we ask, ‘How can I help?'” It’s such a simple yet powerful mindset.

When there’s so much to do, this approach helps move me into problem-solving mode after recognizing I’ve messed up. Saying “I’m sorry” is important, but it’s only the first step. What we do next is what really matters. 

Lately, I’ve been testing an animation concept, and in my excitement, I apologized for pushing too hard—rushing full speed ahead instead of pausing to let a production advisor share their experience. Turns out, their insight saved time and money… and the best way I could help? By stepping back and letting their expertise guide the concept forward.

It also reminds me of a famous line from the King himself:

🎶 “A little less conversation, a little more action, please.” 🎶

Who knows? Maybe the folks behind Daniel Tiger were inspired by Elvis!

So next time you find yourself apologizing for something, follow it up with “How can I help?” and watch the power of your words turn into powerful action.

Peter Contardo